yeah they wanted to adopt him because of some custody brilliance that had to do with an uncle keeping him but our mother wanted him back (at the same exact time she agreed to give me up). my godmother rode a plane with him so he could be with our mother in the days/weeks before i was born... and my mom and dad wanted to take him too. but our mother was adamant that it wasn't a package deal.
YOU SAID, "And please, before everyone says "I'm adopted/ I know an adoptee and they are perfectly happy", consider the fact that adoptees are not likely to tell people that they are unhappy because we are expected to be grateful for being adopted, and we are especially not going to tell adoptive parents, even our own."
So, it's not possible for any adoptees to be happy....I am married to an adoptee and we have discussed this at length and he IS one of the happy ones.
please, tell me. considering that i don't remember saying that. unless you're a stalker and have been following me for the entire two days i've been a blogger.
*tries to see your motives*
i'm glad for your husband. we're all entitled to how we feel.
fancy seeing you here lololol
ReplyDeleteyeah they wanted to adopt him because of some custody brilliance that had to do with an uncle keeping him but our mother wanted him back (at the same exact time she agreed to give me up). my godmother rode a plane with him so he could be with our mother in the days/weeks before i was born... and my mom and dad wanted to take him too. but our mother was adamant that it wasn't a package deal.
YOU SAID, "And please, before everyone says "I'm adopted/ I know an adoptee and they are perfectly happy", consider the fact that adoptees are not likely to tell people that they are unhappy because we are expected to be grateful for being adopted, and we are especially not going to tell adoptive parents, even our own."
ReplyDeleteSo, it's not possible for any adoptees to be happy....I am married to an adoptee and we have discussed this at length and he IS one of the happy ones.
I DID? OMG NO WAY!!
ReplyDeleteWhere?
please, tell me. considering that i don't remember saying that. unless you're a stalker and have been following me for the entire two days i've been a blogger.
*tries to see your motives*
i'm glad for your husband. we're all entitled to how we feel.